brownsbros3
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I recently was the best man at my cousin's wedding. I was paired up with the bride's beautiful sister, who was maid of honor. We hit it off really well. We flirted back and forth, and I thought we really made a connection. She's pretty, smart, funny, and felt really good on my arm while I escorted her down the aisle. There's just one problem though, I found out the day after the wedding that she's engaged to another guy. I can't stop thinking about this girl. I don't know what to do. My head is telling me that her boyfriend seems like a nice enough guy, and if they've got a good thing going I don't want to screw it up for her. Yet, in my heart I can't help the way I feel about her. I think I'm in love. My question is should I tell her how I feel, or is it best to just forget about her and move on?
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Buffy_Fanatic_01
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Wow...that is a really good question! You're pretty much in love with someone who is already engaged to another guy. You don't know if you should tell this girl how you feel or just move on. Well, she is engaged to another guy, but according to your post is sounded like she was flirting with you. This could just be the way she is or she might like you just a little bit. My advice would be to tell her how you feel and see what her response is. However, in the end you will probably have to move on since she is already taken.
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ACcordyChase
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*pats chair next to me*
Have a seat, man....welcome to my world.
-------------------- "Too bad we'll never know.....if this is a face you could learn to love....."
-Doyle (R.I.P.)
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XAngelsCharismaX
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I say leave it alone. It doesn't sound like you know her THAT well, and... yeah, it's too soap opera. She's engaged for a reason.
-------------------- Cordelia: You're a lot smarter than you look. Of course, you look like a retard.
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brownsbros3
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MSN had a lists of four signs that a woman is interested. She matches all four. 1.) Dressing nicer 2.) licking her upper lip with her tongue 3.) brushing her hair back with her fingers 4.) When she talks her feet are facing directly toward you
I know she's way out of my league. I least one interesting tidbit in my favor. Her family apparently doesn't like the guy, they just tolerate him for her benefit. He's also dragging his feet about setting a date. I think I'll just keep my mouth shut and see how it plays out.
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ACcordyChase
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Hmmm. Maybe she read the same article.
-------------------- "Too bad we'll never know.....if this is a face you could learn to love....."
-Doyle (R.I.P.)
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Shalazar
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I don't know where I read this or heard this, but it would be on my list of top pieces of advice for life:
"Love like you'll never be hurt."
If you dig her, let her know.
-------------------- Shalazar
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ACcordyChase
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LOL yeah but its not our fault if her fiancee comes after you brandishing a butcher knife.
-------------------- "Too bad we'll never know.....if this is a face you could learn to love....."
-Doyle (R.I.P.)
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brownsbros3
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I'm actually going to be seeing her again real soon. Her sister, who married my cousin, has a birthday coming up during the first week in August, and we'll be throwing a bash for her. Maybe I should see what kind of vibes she's giving off that night?
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ACcordyChase
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if her sister married your cousin...and you end up getting with her....wouldn't that mess up the status of you and your cousin's title of relationship? you'd be like...what...brothers in law twice removed or some [censored]....cripes I'm going cross-eyed just thinking about it.
-------------------- "Too bad we'll never know.....if this is a face you could learn to love....."
-Doyle (R.I.P.)
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